Do you ever ask yourself this question, “Is he serious about us?” It’s easy to develop feelings for a man you’re dating and then wonder if he’s on the same page as you. While guys might not come out and say it right away, they do a lot of the same things when they’re starting to see you as permanent part of their life.
Here are the 17signs to really know if he is serious about you:
(1)He is honest and transparent
A guy who is starting to feel serious about you will try to get everything out on the table so that he doesn’t “mess things up” with you.
(2)He also wants to have a conversation with you about wanting an exclusive relationship.
This one sounds like a no-brainer, but the “assumed relationship” is common — and not something that you want to fall for. If he isn’t trying to date you exclusively, he knows that you could meet someone else at any time and that doesn’t bother him much.
(3)He respect your opinion and always ask for it
He listens and shows you respect. He remembers what you say and always considers your advice.
(4)He is always ready to make plans with you and stick with them
He wants to reserve time with you in advance and will make sure that he doesn’t potentially mess up your relationship by suggesting everything at the last minute. He doesn’t call you at 2am to hook up. He sees a future so he doesn’t mind planning for it with you in it. He brings up events way in the future, like that concert in three months or how you both will spend the holidays together.
(5)He wants to get to know more about you, to the deepest level
He’s doesn’t gloss over the little details you mention, and actually cares to listen to you talk about your childhood, your goals and your career. If you mentioned a big presentation at work, he will ask how it went. He cares about what makes you tick and what you’re up to when he isn’t around.
(6)He puts out all past flame
A guy who sees a future with you will cut off contact with all flings and exes. He will turn his focus entirely on you and not allow other women to pop up and ruin everything you both shared.
(7)He is always excited when you ain’t around him
If his friends and family report that he won’t shut up about you, this is a good sign he is starting to have serious feelings for you.
(8)He always look for a way to include you in his interest
Nothing makes him happier than bonding over his favorite activities with his favorite person. If he’s interested in golf, tennis, refurbishing old cars, etc., he tries to include you somehow.
(9)you’v ment his family and friends
He has the pride of introducing you to his family and friends. He wants to show you off and isn’t afraid of people’s reactions to you.
(10)He is at a point in his life where commitment would work
Marriage and commitment are always his long-term plan, and he’s at a point in his life when he might be ready to consider that. When guys are trying to get through school, get their careers off the ground or need to sow more wild oats, commitment is often the last thing on their mind. He must be at a point where he’s ready for a serious relationship to commit.
(11)He tries to make a good impress when you showed him to you family or friends
A guy who isn’t serious will sometimes go along with meeting your people, but since he won’t view them as potential permanent forces in you life, he won’t make a big effort. A guy who wants to be with you long term will make a serious effort getting to know the important people in your life.
(12)He is punctual and make sure to apologise when he’s late
He won’t love to leave you hanging. If something makes him late, he will do his best to let you know and try to make up for it.
(13)He makes a spot for you at his place
You don’t have to worry about having a spot for your toothbrush. If he is cleared out a space for you in his closet, you know he is smitten.
(14)He is content waiting for physical intimacy and let’s you initiate it
Even if he was a serious player in a past life, he will be fine with taking it slow.You won’t feel pressure to hop into bed with him since he will value your company as much as a potential sexual encounter. He will treat you like a lady and not a hookup.
(15)He regularly initiates contact with you and you don’t worry that he had disappeared.
He texts, he calls, and he contacts you in ways that show he’s thinking about you. You don’t have that sick feeling in your stomach that he’s pulled a Houdini.
(16)He cares about you been happy, he also tries to help and he is there for you
If you need something, he’s your go-to guy. He is deeply interested in making you smile in any way he can.
(17)The time you spend together feels easy and carefree
You have fun together. You don’t feel like conversation is difficult or forced. He helps make interactions with him easy.