Many people today have forgotten the fact that we are in a dangerous moment, that is why they upchuck all of their secrets to friends, relatives outsiders, and the worst of all strangers. This mistake is very common among the youth of this present generation as well as some adults who think life is safe when sharing your problems with people. Though they said “a problem shared is a problem solved” in our world, it does not apply to all circumstances because the human being is very bad, they may turn against you by using those secrets against you.
Do you know that success in life comes from the good standpoint of the person? You could imagine how outstanding men and women of this 21st century are made. One of the expensive mistakes a lot of people are doing today is that they vomit all their secrets to anybody that comes their way not knowing that it is very dangerous.
In this article, I will share with you things you should never tell anyone about yourself.
1. Your Past Experience
Some people’s minds can not carry the difficult and bad story of someone that is why you should know what to say when it comes to the aspect of your former story. They can even think you are still that bad person you use to be before. Meanwhile, you are not that person anymore.
Furthermore, some things from your past may be too personal that you don’t want anyone to know, and revealing them won’t benefit your relationship in any way. Those details are better left unsaid. If you can’t stop talking and share a little too much about your ex, your partner might get the idea that you’re still hung up on them.
2. Your Family Secret
A family secret should not be made known to people outside the family but within the family. Most families have secrets, but the type and importance vary. Family secrets should be shared among the members alone, or kept by an individual. The secret can relate to taboo cases, rule violations, or just conventional secrets. This is one of the popular negligence some people are committing today. You telling people things related to your immediate family is like “inviting the devil into your house” please never tell anyone that thing which you discuss with your family because they may use it against you. Your family secret is not meant for the consumption of the public, please be warned.
3. Your Salary
Most people especially the working class are not conscious of the threat behind this. Discussing your salary with friends can be a mixed bag. If you find out you’re the lowest-paid member of your group, you might come away feeling bad about yourself. But if there’s one benefit to talking salary with friends, it’s this, doing so might give you a better sense of whether you’re being paid fairly. On the other hand, the world is a very hazardous place because people can destroy your life if they realize you are prospering in life.