Know your partner is cheating when these 5 things start happening

Relationship is meant to strengthen love, increase understanding and breeds togetherness.

Man and woman in relationships need to understand each other such that one should be able to predict the other.

There must not, at anytime, be a vacuum for distrust.



When you are having such thoughts, do not panic. Calm down and look out for these five things in your hubby.

If you notice anyone of them, know that your spouse has started cheating on you.


1 – Nagging over simple issues

When your spouse raises eyebrow over trivia issues, dry jokes and criticise you for small mistakes and start comparing you with someone else, you need to watch it.

He or she may have been given attention to someone new in his/her life and will then see almost everything you do as mistakes.

2 – Giving less time for intimacy

You should know your spouse is cheating or planning to when he/she is not bringing his A-game to fore during love making or intimacy.

Many of them have expended their precious intimacy moments with that new person you don’t know and will be seeing your soft tender touch as irritating.

3 – Coming home late than usual

Are you used to having your spouse at home early?

When someone stops coming home at the regular time, on a regular basis, be wary.

When a schedule changes and there’s no comment about why or what he or she is doing differently, it may be because your spouse is cheating on you.

Some people will offer an excuse for their change in routine—like traffic congestion (and because you’re less likely to question that fact).

3 – Your Spouse is stuck to new phone

Most women who think their man is having an affair will immediately ask to see their phone to scroll through texts and incoming/outgoing calls.

Don’t be fooled if he lets you. If he gives you full access, it’s a sign he may have a second phone he’s using for such action and you may be aware.

4 – You are not allowed to do their laundry anymore

When your spouse stops letting you do his or her laundry or drop off his or her dry cleaning, you often have a cheating situation on your hands.

There may be evidence on the clothes or in the pockets, and it’s much safer for someone who’s cheating to handle their own laundry and dry cleaning.

Pay attention to a spouse who acts like they’re doing you a favour, because it’s more about keeping a secret.

When you notice all these signs highlighted about your spouse, don’t fight over it.

Call for peaceful discussion and see if it can be settled.

You can also seek counselling for relationship experts.

Don’t forget to also pray over it for everything to return back to normal.

Let’s know what you make of this and share other things to look out from a cheating partner in the comment section.

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  1. I have been with my partner for 4years living together, 4year in distant settlement, iwe never had sex since, but I don’t know is it healthy relationship or because we are planning to settle down now and we have all different carriers where by we have limited time to meet each other for more about the family

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